Today I’ll do that thing my brother does.
Here’s a letter that was printed the Fresno Bee this morning:
Phillip Traynor [letter March 18] speaks of leaving a church that considers gay marriage a sin, and going to one that is “in line with my spirituality” which does not think gay marriage is a sin.
He then says that “religious tenets” should not become law. If the tenets of his new church say gay marriage is OK, and gay marriage becomes law, isn’t that putting the “religious tenets” of his church as law? Of course it is. It is the same thing as churches that say gay marriage is not OK.
We are all guided by our belief system. All of us. It is just a matter of whose belief system will prevail. God bless America.
Maple Ridge
Spangler is not thinking clearly. He writes about being “guided by our belief system” and—I infer from the phrase “a matter of whose belief system will prevail”—the process of making law in a society where people with different beliefs can compete to create laws that require others to engage in the conduct that they say is compelled by their beliefs. But he ignores the bridge between these two things: law itself.
We can debate for a long time looking for a satisfactory, universally applicable definition of “law,” but there’s a common sense of how law works in a democratic republic, and it appears between the lines of Spangler’s letter: law is a set of obligations imposed on individuals by society, and the substance of those obligations are defined by the individuals who “prevail,” through the political process, in the goal of imposing their “belief system” on everyone else.
The “belief system” component is the most objectionable part of Spangler’s view, first because he clearly uses “belief system” to mean an ideological set that competes with other ideologies, and second because there is much in law that bears little or no relation to any ideological foundation. For example, prohibitions against killing or the commission violent acts against other members of society are hardly ideological in nature, but almost certainly arise from the basic requirements of what it takes to keep a mutually beneficial society knitted together. Tax laws may give rise to fierce ideological battles among the adherents of different economic theories, but the basic problem of governments needing revenue is not really an ideological issue so much as a practical one.
We do better by paring down the common sense view: law is a set of obligations imposed on individuals by society. Whether those obligations are the expression of authority or a means of oppression is probably a secondary question that may or may not always be answered affirmatively, depending on the circumstances in a given society.
But here is an interesting related point: Religion is a set of obligations, too. In our society, however, it has been supplanted by law as a set of obligations. One interesting consequence has been that, instead of trying to overthrow law as the governing principle of society and replace it with religious belief, most religious people have recast themselves as political activists who want to establish their religious obligations as legal obligations. They do that, in part, by pretending that the rule of law is really just a reformation of religion (and no one would have thought to rule societies by law if religious people had not invented the idea, or received it from a deity) and by asserting that religious obligations (arising from, e.g., revelation and theology) are no different than legal obligations (which arise from necessity and human creativity—the secular analogues of revelation and theology) because they also arise from necessity. So they make arguments against same-sex marriage, for example, by claiming that marriage between a man and a woman is the foundation of human society and that unless we define marriage that way and only that way, human society will crumble into anarchy. (But I would be very surprised to discover that anyone other than people who have already decided, for religious and ideological reasons, that same-sex marriage is wrong are ever convinced by the society-will-fall-apart argument against same-sex marriage. In other words, the “necessity” argument is completely disingenuous.)
Spangler is trying to combat the criticism that people who oppose same-sex marriage on religious and ideological grounds are no different than people who support it, that everyone is “guided by [his or her] belief system”: we are in an ideological free-for-all, and only one view can prevail. He does not say so in the letter, but I strongly suspect that Spangler believes his view will prevail, probably because he believes his view is the one commanded by God. Maybe I’m inferring too much, but I doubt it.
His argument is what I call “the false equal-footing argument” (there’s probably a technical name, but I don’t care—I like my name for it), which generally leads to a claim or implication of hypocrisy. Here, Spangler claims that supporters of same-sex marriage are “guided by [their] belief system” just like opponents (so they’re on an equal footing), but while opponents of same-sex marriage are honest that they are trying to impose their beliefs on others, proponents of same-sex marriage are hypocritically dishonest by failing to admit that they are doing the same thing.
The problem is that to bring proponents of same-sex marriage onto the same ideological footing as opponents, as Spangler tries to do, he needs to make the big assumption that obligations will be imposed either way. Obviously, making same-sex marriage illegal imposes obligations on same-sex couples by refusing to allow them the benefits that married couples receive under our laws. From the other direction, opponents of same-sex marriage frequently assert that allowing same-sex couples to get married will create obligations for people who believe that marriage is between one man and one woman. For example, if a Christian owns a business and employs someone whose spouse is a member of the same sex, then if the Christian business owner has a policy of extending health benefits to spouses, then he or she will have to extend health benefits to that same-sex spouse. This, says the Christian, is a new obligation—not because benefits must be paid to a non-employee spouse, but because paying those benefits requires the Christian to “recognize” the same-sex marriage.
There are other situations with these alleged obligations, but they all just come down to “recognizing” same-sex marriage. In other words, “Don’t make us confront the reality that not everyone is heterosexual!” There is no other “obligation” in legalizing same-sex marriage. No one will be required to marry another member of the same sex. No one will be required to promote marriage to someone of the same sex. No one will be required to make friends with same-sex couples. The matter is simply one of recognition, and only for legal purposes: If a man chooses to make a woman his spouse, you recognize his choice and treat her as his spouse for the purpose of legal benefits bestowed on spouses, but if a man chooses to make another man his spouse, you refuse to recognize his choice for the purpose of legal benefits bestowed on spouses. But does prohibiting that distinction create a legal obligation? Does it cause a legally or constitutionally cognizable injury?
In other words: Does requiring people to confront the reality that not everyone is heterosexual violate the free exercise of their religious belief that any intimate relationship other than one between a man and a woman is wrong?
That is the real question here, the one that Spangler ignores, because in some ways it is a difficult question. He and other opponents of same-sex marriage do not want that question brought out into the light of day and examined by the rest of society, probably because they know that, despite its philosophical difficulty, the most reasonable practical answer is clear: Are you out of your minds?
Requiring people to afford the same rights to non-whites, women, and disabled people that they traditionally afforded to able-bodied white males did not require anyone to change their own identity, to make friends with non-whites, women, or disabled people, or even to like them. It simply meant, “You can’t pretend any longer that these people are so different from you that they should have fewer legal rights than you do.” Was that, in itself, a new legal obligation or a constitutionally cognizable injury? No! (Note, however, that requiring buildings and new construction to include accessibility features for people with physical disabilities was a new obligation. But despite lots of complaining, no one has managed to get that overturned, probably because the practical answer was clear there, too: Open your eyes and just be a decent person already!)
People like Spangler, in that letter above, want to keep the public misdirected. They want us to believe that this is an ideological battle between good and evil, only one of which can “prevail.” They want us to believe that proponents of same-sex marriage are sneaky ideologues who refuse to admit their true nature. The last thing they want is for the question to be turned back, so that they have to explain why requiring them to confront reality would do such damage that we should accommodate their beliefs and, as a consequence, require a different class of people to have diminished legal rights.
They want to protect the status of “belief systems” and “religion” as fonts of unassailable ideas, privileged more strongly than every other source of human thought—so they never have to explain the injury they claim to suffer, except to say that the law conflicts with their religious beliefs. But no one should accept that answer anymore because it is not an explanation. It is a conclusion, based on premises to which we cannot all agree. And unless we can build a society based on premises to which we can all agree, even if they are only a few, then there is little to protect us from falling into irreconcilable discord.