Heroic Disappointment

John McCain went on Leno last night. In reference to a recent gaffe, when McCain couldn’t remember how many houses he owns, Jay asked him, “How many houses do you have?”

Everybody knows that John McCain was a prisoner of war, that he suffered more than five years of imprisonment. Most people, even those who serve in the military, do not experience such terrible things in service to their nation, and McCain certainly deserves respect for what he gave.

But when he responded to Jay Leno last night, he turned that awful time in his life into a trite dodge:

“Could I just mention to you, Jay, that, at a moment of seriousness. I spent five-and-a-half years in a prison cell,” McCain said. “I didn’t have a house. I didn’t have a kitchen table. I didn’t have a table. I didn’t have a chair. And I didn’t spend those five-and-a-half years because, not because I wanted to get a house when I got out.”

That’s not an honorable response. It takes something honorable and plays it for political value. It devalues his suffering. It’s unbefitting a hero and it diminishes the honor he is due.

I must respect Senator McCain for the suffering he endured in service to my nation, but I cannot respect him for using that suffering the way he did last night, or the way he and his supporters continue to tout it as a qualification to sit in the Oval Office. Having a distinguished military career does not automatically raise McCain above his present failings, or give him a ticket out of his embarrassing stumbles—like forgetting how many houses he owns. Even less so when he abuses that honor for political advantage.

A real hero can look back on something like a prisoner-of-war experience and say, “Yes, I was there, and I suffered, and it changed me irrevocably.” And a real hero should be respected for that. But a real hero takes the fortitude and integrity that spring from honorable suffering and builds on those things to be a greater person. A real hero does not use his naked honor as a skeleton key to open every door and escape from every trap.

If John McCain wants to keep being a real hero, he needs to stop playing the POW card, let his distinguished service stand as a quiet testament to the size of his character, and demonstrate that he is still the same man who found the strength to survive those five years as a prisoner of war, instead of just a man who needs to keep reminding us that once upon a time he showed that strength. We know. And it speaks for itself.

4 Responses to Heroic Disappointment

  1. adam says:

    Wow, I’m glad that I neither stayed up that late nor watched Leno* because that’s just terrible.

    *I would watch Letterman anyway.

  2. Rebecca says:

    I always get annoyed when politicians who have served in the military automatically get touted as knowing about foreign policy. Serving in the military doesn’t automatically grant knowledge of foreign policy.

  3. Jim says:

    Did you watch the Democratic Convention tonight? Did you see all the Generals and Admirals who stood up on stage to show their support? I didn’t even know we had so many. There must have been 20 of them. That is pretty telling when all that military brass steps up to endorse Mr Military McCain.

    Dad

  4. Peter says:

    Yeah, I watched all four nights of the convention coverage on PBS. It was pretty impressive to see all those generals and admirals lined up on the Democratic side, but not really surprising. I think the stereotype of the “hawkish” military leader (like George C. Scott’s General Turgidson from Dr. Strangelove) is pretty much confined to the movies. With Republicans on the martial bandwagon for the last few election cycles, it makes sense (to me, at least) that experienced military leaders would rather support the Democrats.

    I’m interested now in seeing how McCain plays the military card at the Republican convention.

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